Happy Holidays!

Wishing all of you a good time with your loved ones and all the best for 2012!

Snowflake Card and Gift Card Holder

I just made these cards and a gift card holder.

I used the Silhouette Cameo to cut out the gift card holder, and then used a traditional snowflake punch to punch out a snowflake.

I glued some turquoise cardstock under the lid, and trimmed it with scissors, just following the shape of the box.

For the cards I used my good old Big Shot. 

I still love that one, too.

I used an embossing folder to emboss the snowflakes,

and a die to cut out the snowflake.

Am trying to decide which version I like better,

if you look closely, there is a difference.

On the left, the kraft cardstock is debossed (imprinted),

on the right it is embossed (snowflakes are sticking out).

Shared at Blue Cricket Design.

Peppermint Crunch Brownies - super easy recipe

I just made these super simple brownies.

I am pretty much out of groceries, and needed to make something for a little x-mas party for the kids. 

I know, bad planning...

I happened to have brownie mix and candy canes on hand.

It doesn't get any simpler, but it tastes great.

Just prepare the brownie batter according to package instructions.

Crunch some candy canes with a rolling pin in a Ziploc bag.

Sprinkle half of the crunched candy canes on top of the brownie before putting it in the oven, and bake as normal.

It will melt and kind of soak into the brownie.

Then, take it out, and sprinkle the remaining candy cane  pieces on top of it, and put it back in the oven for a minute.

Enjoy!

Shared at Sugar Bee Crafts.

Silhouette Cameo: Vinyl wall quote for the nursery

A couple months ago my husband told me he wanted to get me a Silhouette SD as an anniversary gift. 

I have admired the Silhouette SD for a couple years, but never wanted to actually spend the money to get one.

Even after he told me to get one, I waited a while.

That turned out to be a good thing, since I was able to get a good Black Friday deal on their newest model, the Silhouette Cameo.

I have had it for about a week and a half, and I LOVE it!

So many things that it can do.

What I love the most, is that it doesn't need cartridges, but you can buy individual files (which go on sale sometimes), and you can also use all fonts on your computer.

With all free fonts that are available (and dingbats, which are actually pictures),

 the possibilities are endless.

I realize I sound like I am trying to sell the product. 

Trust me, I am not, I don't get paid to say this, but am just very impressed with it :)

You need to use it with your computer, and it comes with software that is easy to use. 

It can cut a 12x12 sheet, and you can resize a file just by dragging the corners, so you can resize anything pretty easily to exactly the size that works for you. 

The pictures below show my first bigger project.

Our nursery is decorated in a  classic Winnie the Pooh theme. 

I have loved the quote below for quite a while.

So thought it was perfect to go on her wall!

I made the quote and the heart with the Silhouette, using the following free fonts.

The quote: Reklame Script Regular DEMO (only letters, you pay for the full version)

Winnie's signature: Boopee

Heart: KR Heartalicious (actually it's the capital G)

The little bee and Winnie himself are vinyl stickers that we bought several years ago.

You can expect to see more Silhouette Cameo projects in the future!

I linked up to Blue Cricket Design.

Let it snow...

Although it's pretty cold, 

we still haven't seen much snow here.

We have been doing some winter decorating,

and I made this printable.

So I thought I'd share it here...

(The size is 8 by 10.)

Now we need some snow!

Shared at : Skip to my lou and Sugarbee Crafts.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Guess what this is...

Can you guess what is pictured here?

It kept my two oldest girls entertained for quite a while...

I saw the idea somewhere online,

and thought it was brilliant

(both literally and figuratively)

Simple, but so much fun!

Even before they started playing, they asked if they could do it another time!

Anyway, this is what you are looking at:

Glowsticks in the bathtub = lots of fun!!!

Baby gift

I found this cute dress for a friend of mine who had a baby girl.

I love the color combination, and decided it needed something to go with it.

So I made her a couple of hair clips in colors that match the dress.

I cut some felt into flower shapes, using my Big Shot.

Glued them on alligator clips with my glue gun, and added a rhinestone.

And a matching card.

21 things I love about you

This is the last day of the "31-for-21 challenge", and I am glad I 'made' it, posting every day.
It was kind of hard, so I sort of 'cheated' here and there by keeping it short and just posting a picture. 
It takes a lot of time, and besides that, I am not one to easily share my feelings with 'the world'.

But I hope my posts have been interesting, and maybe even encouraging to someone out there that is going through similar experiences. Thanks to everyone who has been reading these posts! 

Since our baby girl has an extra copy of the 21st chromosome (Trisomy 21=Down syndrome), 

I thought I'd create a list of 21 things I love about her as my final post for the "31-for-21" challenge.

(In random order)

21 things I love about you

1. Your big blue eyes - almond shaped and all
2. The way you stare at your hands, you think they are amazing
3. Your smiles, grins and giggles
4. The way you talk, cute noises
5. The way you gaze in our eyes as you're talking to us
6. How you like to look at your big sisters when they are playing
7. How you like to smile at your big sisters
8. How you are usually sleeping between midnight and 7 - thank you, little girl!
9. Your long, dark eyelashes
10. Your chubby cheeks
11. Seeing you kick your little legs happily when you spot one of us
12. Your sweet baby smell - except for the diapers ;)
13. How you are enjoying your baths
14. The way you grab our fingers
15. The cute long 'tail' of hair on top of your head
16. Your chubby hands and feet
17. The cute little sandal gap between your big toe and the next one
18. How you like to suck your thumbs, either one is fine
19. The way you stretch and try to roll over when you see a favorite toy or something interesting
20. How you've taught us that perfection comes in different forms
21. How you have shown us that having a baby with Down syndrome is not a bad thing - actually we're very lucky to have YOU

Love you, baby girl!

Happy Halloween

We've been busy with Halloween preparations:

carving our pumpkins, 

toasting pumpkin seeds,

making treats for school,

decorating the house with some cute pumpkin and candy corn lights 

(that I got for VERY cheap some time in November last year).

I even got the treats ready, since I'm usually surprised how early the first trick-or-treaters are coming, 

and then I am running around like crazy to get candy ready, the kids dressed up, etc.

So I guess we're ready for Halloween :)

A beautiful day at the park

This weekend we went to the park to take some pictures.

The weather was so nice.

Loving all the fall colors!

These girls were excited to find a squirrel.

And the squirrel didn't seem to mind them so close, he was just looking at them.

Little sister was content to hang out in her stroller, taking it all in...

Favorite toy!

This little cat is Little Miss N's favorite toy.

Whenever she spots it, she HAS to get it!

So we use it a lot to get her to roll over, reach for things, etc.

It's nice to have something that 'motivates' her to move, 

so we use it during Physical Therapy, too.

It's so cute to see her 'play' with it :)

A different perspective :)

(If you have Down syndrome, you have 47 chromosomes, instead of 46, which is typical.)

No time to be bored...

The past three days

in our house

we've had 

someone with a stomach bug

someone with hand, foot and mouth disease

someone who managed to get chewing gum stuck in her hair... TWICE 

someone who got a bead stuck in her ear, requiring a trip to the doctor to get it out.

Who does have time to get bored around here?!

Fortunately none of it involved the smallest member of the family...

Nope, she's just as innocent as she looks...

Sound asleep...

Our baby girl smiles a lot.

However, it's not so easy to take a picture of her smiling.

She is very curious, and the instant she spots a camera, she HAS to 'check it out', which results in a very serious look.

The trick is taking a picture of her without her seeing the camera.

So for now no pictures of her looking at the camera with a smile, but  pictures taken from the side when someone else is distracting her and trying to get her to smile.

This one is cute anyway :)

Down syndrome: what do siblings think?

Often one of the concerns of parents whose child is diagnosed with Down syndrome, 

is that it will burden the other kids down the road. 

They think the child with Down syndrome will need too much attention, thus taking it away from the other children, 

and when the parents are gone, the siblings might be the ones to take care of their brother or sister with Down syndrome.

But do siblings really see their brother or sister with Down syndrome as a burden?

Not according to this study:

Having a brother or sister with Down syndrome: Perspectives from siblings.

This study asks brothers and sisters about their feelings and perceptions toward their sibling with Down syndrome (DS). They analyzed valid and reliable surveys from 822 brothers and sisters whose families were on the mailing lists of six non-profit DS organizations around the country. 

• More than 96% of brothers/sisters that responded to the survey indicated that they had affection toward their sibling with DS; 
• 94% of older siblings expressed feelings of pride. 
• Less than 10% felt embarrassed 
• Less than 5% expressed a desire to trade their sibling in for another brother or sister without DS. 
• Among older siblings, 88% felt that they were better people because of their siblings with DS 
• More than 90% plan to remain involved in their sibling's lives as they become adults. 
• The vast majority of brothers and sisters describe their relationship with their sibling with DS as positive and enhancing. 

© 2011 Wiley-Liss, Inc. 

Skotko BG, Levine SP, Goldstein R. 

Patti from "A Perfect Lily" had her older children share about their feelings about this subject in this very touching video:

I remember talking to one mom who told me that she and her husband were debating whether or not they would keep the baby they were expecting, knowing that he had Down syndrome, when her older boy, who was 12 at the time, came in, and overheard the conversation of his parents. 

His response?

"Of course we are going to have this baby, he is our BROTHER!"

So touching!

And, I am happy to report they didn't terminate the pregnancy, and he is the best and most proud big brother that this little toddler with Down syndrome could wish for!

I have heard a lot of parents say that having a sibling with special needs made their other children better people.

These things have been very encouraging to me! 

And, looking at my oldest 2 girls and how they adore their baby sister makes me very happy and supports the findings in the study I mentioned above...

Lesson from my kids

Two years ago we happened to have the privilege to be involved with the Special Olympics World Winter Games.

Our girls were 2 and 4 at the time, and they LOVED it.

They were so involved, and admired all the athletes. A lot of them had Down syndrome.

My girls really adored the athletes, and wanted to be just like them.

My 4 year old had noticed they were a little 'different', as we found out months later, 

but she didn't see that as a negative thing at all.

Admiring the gold medal of one of the athletes.

That is such a great lesson. 
I wish that everybody would see the person first, and their capacities, rather than look at the limitations someone might have.

I know a lot of parents of kids with Down syndrome are sort of offended when their kids are referred to as "Down syndrome babies" or "Down syndrome children". They would prefer the following: "Babies with Down syndrome" or "Children with Down syndrome". 
Putting the person first, rather than the syndrome.

Personally, I don't have too many issues with the way people phrase things. 
I think the intention matters much more than how people say it. 
If they mean well, I don't get offended too easily.

But since not everyone feels the same, I thought I'd mention it...

But I love the lesson from my little girls: admire the PERSON first :)

Having fun crocheting

With the weather cooling down, 

our youngest needs her hats again!

But she outgrew all the hats I made her earlier.

So it was time to make some more...

 

I also fancied up some plain hats from the $ store, by sewing crocheted flowers and leaves on them. These are nice and stretchy, so they fit my older girls, who have to be able to wear them over their hair...

Simple and fun...

And since I am still doing the 31-for-21 challenge to raise awareness for Down syndrome , 

just one more picture of our dear little girl, wearing one of her new hats and showing off her beautiful almond shaped eyes :)

Hoppin' for 21

Today is October 21 (just a little bit longer), and I just learned about this blog hop:

"We want to support all those that rock that extra chromosome with a blog hop on the 21st!
Hoppin' for 21 is hosted by 
Crazy Beautiful Love, The Bates Motel, and Carrie with Children. "

So I decided to join it!

Hope you like to check out some of the blogs on here!

"I make these genes look good..."

Things I wish I would have known when our baby got diagnosed with Down syndrome - Part 3

This is probably the most important thing I wish I would have known a year ago.

I wish I would have known a year ago how falling in love with your baby would change everything.

Simply the joy of having her around, and how much we love her, totally outweighs the worries we had and still have.

Yes, we still have worries about her.

But we have worries about our other kids, too.

I think it's only natural for parents to worry about their kids,

or for people to worry about people they love.

The fact that your child has 46 chromosomes (which is the typical number of chromosomes in a human cell), 
is no guarantee for a life without worries.

But adding an extra chromosome definitely does not take away from the love you have for your child and the joy they bring...

Things I wish I would have known when our baby got diagnosed with Down syndrome - Part 2

Did you know that we were told not to read any literature about Down syndrome that is more than 10 years old?

People used to think that individuals with Down syndrome were not able to learn.
They thought they were 'trainable', but not 'teachable'.

It's not too long ago that parents of babies with Down syndrome were told to send them to an institution and forget about them.

Since it's not too long ago that these things happened, it's best to stay away from outdated information. Therefore, just looking around randomly for information is not always helpful. I think the NDSS website is a great start for people looking for accurate information on Down syndrome.

We have had a lot of help after our little girl was born, and even some beforehand, in different ways:

There are several therapies that help individuals with Down syndrome to reach their fullest potential:


Physical Therapy
Occupational Therapy
Speech and Language Therapy.


At the moment our little girl gets Physical Therapy, and the plan is to start Speech Therapy around 6 months. That might sound funny, but apparently even the way you feed your baby influences the way they use the muscles that are used for speaking down the road. 


So far little Miss N has reached all her milestones in time. She is smiling, cooing, rolling over, reaching for toys, etc.


Therapy sort of helps to stay ahead of the game.


We know that there will be a point that she will show developmental delays, but it really helps to know that she is getting all the help she needs to develop at her best potential. 


They make it easy to incorporate therapy in our daily lives, it's not like we have to do exercises all day long. For example, each time when we change her, she does a baby "sit-up", or we play on the floor to strengthen her neck and tummy muscles. Even her big sisters can help, which is a lot of fun.

I sort of dreaded the thought of therapists running in and out all the time, but guess what? It's not bad at all, we really like our therapists and we enjoy doing whatever we can do to help our girl.


We have more resources in our community, like Down syndrome playgroups, and even activities  for parents of children with Down syndrome, lectures, etc. All these things have been very helpful to us.

Things I wish I would have known when our baby got diagnosed with Down syndrome - Part 1

I think we have come a long way this last year.

It's almost exactly a year ago now that we had the ultrasound that showed that our little girl might have Down syndrome or another chromosomal abnormality. 
It took over a month before we knew for sure what was going on.

Now, a year later, there are some things I wish I would have known back then. 
So in case someone who is in the same boat as we were, reads this, or someone who knows people who are going through this, I thought it would be useful to share.

Of course, every person is different, situations might be different, but I hope this can be helpful and encouraging.

Did you know there are a lot of families that have a child with Down syndrome that decided to adopt another one? 
If it would be really that hard, I think nobody would be able to do that!

Some blogs that I really find interesting and encouraging are:

Our perfectly imperfect life

This family has 3 adorable kids, the youngest two have Down syndrome.

They adopted their youngest girl from Russia.

The following blog is very inspiring, too:

They have 3 kids, including Ben who has Down syndrome.They are in the process of adopting Davis, who has Down syndrome, too.These international adoptions are expensive, so they can use any help they can get!




Grab This!
Isn't he cute?
I love the fact that their mom, Amy, even has the room for him and his bigger brother ready already.She is very crafty and has great taste.You can look at the room that is waiting for him HERE.
I also love the following blog:Confessions of the chromosomally enhanced
The writer of this blog has an older sister who has Down syndrome.In 2010, she and her husband decided to adopt Josie, who has Down syndrome, too.This blog is about Josie and her aunt Leanne. I like the subtitle: "A Diary of Dual Downs Divas".
There are so many more blogs out there of people who know first hand what it means to live with someone who has Down syndrome, and then go on to adopt a child with Down syndrome.
Wish I would have known that a year ago, that would have been very encouraging...

I have a voice

Down syndrome poem

My face might be different

But my feelings the same

I laugh and I cry

And I take pride in my gains

I was sent here among you

To teach you to love

As God in the heavens

Looks down from above

To him I’m no different

His love knows no bounds

It’s those here among you

In cities and towns

That judge me by standards

That man has imparted

But this family I’ve chosen

Will help me get started

For I’m one of the children

So special and few

That came here to learn

The same lessons as you

That love is acceptance

It must come from the heart

We all have the same purpose

Though not the same start

The Lord gave me life

To live and embrace

And I’ll do as you do

But at my own pace.


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